Sapperton revitalization more fragile than it seems

Poor Sapperton.

Around 2005/2006 I remember visiting Will before we were married at his old Cedar St. apartment. Sapperton then seemed pretty run-down and rough around the edges. When we bought our first condo together in New West a few years later, I refused to consider even looking in that part of New West.

But in the past couple of years, the area seemed to be improving. There was the start of a kids’ district in New West, with Pedagogy Toys, Kids Kloset and Dimpleskins, a few neat boutiques (Opulence & Cadeaux), a few good bakeries (Bella Cakes & Farm Cottage, which relocated from the Quay), and of course the new Starbucks (hey, I like my lattes). Now it’s looking like Sapperton’s revitalization was more fragile than it seemed.

The City of New West is doing streetscape improvements in the area. You’d think this would be a good thing. But when four months’ worth of construction turned into 10 months, customers just stopped coming. And now it looks like East Columbia is in crisis.

Kids Kloset relocated Uptown. Pedagogy Toys has said this may be their last Christmas season, unless sales are unexpectedly strong. And now Bella Cakes says it may not be able to last much longer either.

On the bright side, I hear that newly opened Graze Market & Deli is amazing. Holland Shopping Centre seems to be doing pretty well since moving from 8th Ave. in Glenbrook to Columbia. And (a mixed success) Karmavore is doing so well that they are relocating to a much larger location … only it’s in Downtown New West!

Sapperton’s boutiques haven’t been shuttered yet. Fie on the roadwork! I’m going to make a point of doing at least one pre-Christmas shopping trip in Sapperton this year and I hope you do the same.

Have I missed any great Sapperton shops or restaurants that could use some link lovin’ (and customers!)?

Hyack the Holidays: Gifts for Kids

With a DS- and Pokemon-obsessed eight-year-old stepson, a two-year-old whose alter ego is Prince Philip the Knight and a newborn girl I’m looking forward to spoil, I’ve had a personal interest in finding good local Christmas gifts & activities for kiddies.

Here’s where I’ve been shopping for gifts for my kids here in New West. (Hint: Sapperton is the place to be!)

Pedagogy Toys, 424 East Columbia St.

Pedagogy Toys at 434 Columbia St., New Westminster.
Pedagogy Toys in New Westminster.

If  cartoon character-branded toys turn you off, look here for toys for your toddler to preteen. Pedagogy has loads of family games, including some for as young as three, science & craft kids for older kids, handmade Christmas Crackers and loads of stocking stuffer toys. I particularly like the WOW Toys line of friction-powered cars & trucks for toddlers (my son is enthralled with the fire truck, as you will read below ….) and the build-your-own marble run by Quadrilla. Pedagogy also carries Settlers of Catan, among other excellent games.

Unlike Toys-R-Us, Pedagogy is actually kid-friendly: there’s a play table in the back with a small selection of toys to keep small kids busy while you shop.

Owner Karen Smecher has a pack of small children at home, and so she is savvy to the travails of mothers shopping with toddlers. The first time I took my son there, I hadn’t cottoned on to the magic of the timer (i.e. a warning that when the timer on my phone goes, it’s time to leave) and, typically two, my sweet Wesley was on the verge of an all-out tantrum to protest being taken away from playing with Ernie the Fire Truck. Karen swooped in to the rescue with the offer of a ‘pocket penguin’ to take home. She strategically positioned herself and the bucket of tiny penguin figurines by the door, and after he chose his penguins (one for each hand, of course) he was so preoccupied with taking them in and out of his pockets that he didn’t protest at all at being ushered out the door. Now that’s service.

Next to Pedagogy, you’ll find Kids Kloset (420 East Columbia St.), a consignment store that also has new clothing and accessories for sale. I find Kids Kloset a bit crowded, but they have some adorable rain gear for toddlers and last time I was in, I was admiring the stylish diaper bags & lunch bags for Mom.

A few other gift ideas I had for kids in the Sapperton area:

If you’re shopping for a little girl, you should mosey on over to 12th St. and  check out Kiss A Frog (948 12th St.) too. While they carry toys and clothing suitable for both girls and boys, they have a stunning selection of girls’ party dresses and fancy accessories that will make you melt – not to mention light up your daughter’s eyes when she sees it! You can also find Melissa & Doug style wooden toys here, and some unusual kids’ things. This is where Santa has sourced the miniature accordion and wind-up dino Wesley will find under the tree Christmas Day, for example.

Clever Mink’s (711 Carnarvon), one of our sponsors, often has toys among their selection of eclectic gifts. Last year I bought a lovely wooden train puzzle/pull-toy for Wesley there.

Parents of Lego maniacs should also stop by Shamryn Hobbies (612 Carnarvon St.) for an impressive selection of Lego kits, model trains and (oddly) Webkinz. Plus, there’s a pre-Christmas sale on right now and everything in the store is 20-30% off.

I also did a local crafter search on Etsy, and found a couple of neat gift ideas made right here in New West:

If shopping online is more your style, Pinky & Company, run by local mom of two Alix Cote (also a sponsor of our blog), sells baby leggings, ironic T-shirts for toddlers, diaper bags for dads, ‘hooter hiders’ for nursing moms and more.

Cloth diapering 101

Cloth diapers, drying on a clothesline. Photo: pierrotsomepeople (via Flickr)
Cloth diapers, drying on a clothesline. Photo: pierrotsomepeople (via Flickr)

This is a guest post by Clara Cristofaro and Kerry Sauriol, two local moms who have successfully navigated the sometimes confusing world of cloth diapering!

Kerry’s hold on sanity is her computer and the world of mommy bloggers. She can ignore the chaos created by three kids, three cats, a dog and patient husband and find the peace it takes to come up with her latest post at her personal site Crunchy Carpets. Apart from obsessive Tweeting and Facebooking, she can also be found haranguing people to post on her other site Wet Coast Women.

Clara is a writer, mother and compulsive wisecracker currently enjoying an extended leave of absence from her boring office job. A recent transplant to New Westminster, Clara is an only child, a dog person and prefers her coffee, beer, and chocolate to be as dark as possible. She is also quite tall. She documents her life for the Internet at her personal blog, the cheeseblog and tweets the details as torturedpotato.

Talking Cloth with Kerry (mom of 3) and Clara (mom of 2)

We are two Metro Vancouver moms who banged our heads together and let all the information about cloth diapers fall out – into this post. We both believe that whatever works for you and your family is the only absolute best way to do things.

Clara: I started using cloth diapers when my first son was born in 2006. We used a diaper service for the first three months and then I bought our own supply from various local and online stores. My second son was born 18 months ago, when my first was almost 2, so we had two kids in cloth diapers for about a year.

Kerry: I am a cloth diaper newbie. I never even thought about them until this third child was on her way. My sudden interest in them was due mainly to the cost of disposables and the whole icky landfill thing. I started talking to cloth diaper users and surfing the net for more information. I even checked out a workshop done by Vancouver Company New and Green. It was very helpful, but I still found the whole thing a bit daunting. I still do. I think we are now spoiled for choice. The biggest issue I find in cloth diapering is the initial cost. Getting started can put a dent in your wallet. There are options though..used, renting out starter kits, and the millions of ‘types’ of cloth diapers.

Talking to ‘pros’ about cloth diapers helps you narrow your choices!

Clara: I believe there are as many ways to deal with your child’s excrement as there are stars in the sky. I am a part timer: we use cloth at home during the day and disposables overnight and when we go out for more than two hours or on vacation. (What? Oh you caught me. Of course we won’t be taking a vacation until well after these kids are out of diapers.)

If I was starting with cloth diapers right now, this is what I would use, based on what I’ve learned over the past three years:

Disposables until the baby is 10 lbs

My reasons:

  • newborns have runny, watery poop and lots of it. There were no cloth diapers I could find for a 8 – 10 lb baby that didn’t somehow gape or leak, necessitating frequent costume changes and you just don’t want to change a newborn any more than you have to because they scream like nobody’s business.
  • I also found that the diapers and covers combination rubbed against the baby’s umbilical stump and irritated it. The stump is supposed to stay clean and dry and having a moist cloth against it didn’t seem conducive to healing (to be fair, the disposables did this too but they were easier to manipulate so that they were just below the stump)

Kerry: I agree with this even though with my giant baby (9 lb 7 oz) I didn’t really have to ‘wait’ till she was over ten lbs, and found the fitted diapers that I had to work quite well.

And the insane amount of changes means you would need a crazy amount of small cloth diapers to get through this part anyway.

Fitted diapers with covers from 12 weeks – 6 months:

My reasons:

This is the easiest and fastest way to get a diaper on a baby. The fitted diapers are elasticized or fitted around the thighs and this helps prevent leaks.
No folding involved, which becomes important when the baby starts rolling and then crawling away from you. You need to move fast and diaper faster.
I found this to be the bulkiest form of cloth diapering and when the baby is this young, I don’t feel so bad that its butt is so big and padded. When babies get more mobile, from 6 months and up, I like the diapers to be more slim cut so that they can experiment with movement.

Pocket diapers from 6 months until switching to training pants or underpants

My reasons:

They are slim and trim and allow the baby as much freedom of movement as a disposable
They are as fast to apply on a squirming, screaming toddler as a disposable
They wash and dry beautifully because they separate into two parts – in fact they can air dry in an hour, which saves dryer energy.

I also recommend:

  • Flushable diaper liners for 6 months and up or whenever you start solid foods and start getting solid waste as your reward. These liners are like 10-ply toilet paper. If dirty, they can be dropped in the toilet and flushed away. If they are only wet, you can launder them with your diapers and re-use them until they start to fall apart. (My personal record for re-use is 3.)
  • A way to store the dirty diapers until laundry time. I use these drawstring, nylon bags (bummis) and one of these – they pull closed to keep the smell in and they go right in the washing machine with the diapers. I like the bag method over the diaper pail because then I’m not fishing around in a pail with my hands, pulling out soiled diapers to put in the washer. I just up-end the bag, toss it in too, shut the door. Granted, this would be easier with a top loading washer but it’s not impossible with our front-loader.

Diapering routines

Clara’s routine:

The dirty diapers go in the drawstring bag hanging from our stair railing or in the bag-lined pail at the top of the stairs, near the washing machine. I empty the bags into our washer and run the diapers through with hot water and a tablespoon of detergent (any kind you like but the less the better as the soap can leave a film on the diapers and then they won’t absorb as well) as well as ¼ cup of white vinegar for the rinse. On the rare occasion that the diapers still smell when the wash is done, I run them through another cold cycle with more vinegar. Then, into the dryer or on to our drying rack.

I would have thought that leaving a bag full of wet & soiled diapers for a day or two would have created an almighty stench but actually it does not. I have heard of putting a few drops of tea tree oil in the diaper pail to neutralize odour. That sounds lovely and I’m sure it would work. But I found that unless I was standing right over the diaper pail, inhaling, it wasn’t a problem. Not nearly as stinky as one dirty disposable in a garbage can. Seriously.

Kerry’s Routine: The cleaning of these things so far (with a 10 week old) has been easy. I tend to just toss the fitted diapers and cloth liners and covers right into my top loading washer. I have a button on my machine to fill the tub with water (cold) with as much water as I need and I soak them in there until I get around to actually washing the whole load. I don’t have a big supply of diapers at the moment so this is every other day right now. Disposing of the poop is easy too…specially if you use the biodegradable liners.

As the poop and so on gets worse, I know I will have to follow more stringent washing procedures.

Overnight:

Clara: I have heard of people padding their kids up with extra cloth diapers overnight. My kids are heavy wetters and I never managed a combination for overnight that didn’t result in night waking (to be avoided at Any Cost) so we use a disposable overnight.

Kerry: I swing between disposable and cloth at night. Depends how sleepy I am. All those snaps get complicated in the dark.

Out and about

Clara: When I had only one child I had a diaper bag stocked with cloth diapers. I was very well organized. It is possible to do it if you carry a small wet bag to put the dirties in. When the second child was born I had to make some decisions about how to streamline my routine and ensure that I was not running around like a headless chicken. One of those decisions was to keep the diaper bag / accoutrements / stuff that prevents me from getting out of the house before noon as simple as possible. For me, that means disposables.

Kerry: I have a bag for the dirty diapers and usually one or two cloth and a wad of disposables stuffed in my too-small diaper bag.

Hidden Advantages of Using Cloth

  • Kids feel when they are wet, which helps when it’s toilet training time
  • You can make your own diapers if you’re handy – there are tonnes of patterns and resources online for this. My friend even designed her own pocket diaper for her kids. This saves a loooooot of money – assuming you have the time.
  • You can re-use laundered wipes. When a disposable wipe gets washed it gets really soft. I use mine to wipe my children’s noses. I tell them they are special tissues.
  • If you opt, as we did, to buy 50 prefold diapers (like these) you can use them in perpetuity to clean floors, wash windows or soak up spilled coffee. After they’ve been washed 100 times they are the most absorbant paper towel you will ever meet: and bonus! they’re not paper! In fact, I recommend everyone go out and buy 10 prefold diapers (they are about $2.50 a piece) just to have around the house in case your cat throws up or your children get into a yogurt fight.

Kerry: I too have found the prefolds to be great dusters and window washers…just a bit em…awkward for their actual use!

The greatest hurdle for me has been FINDING the diapers. Finding them easily and cheaply and in person. The vast selection of online stuff is great, unless you are like me and need to see and touch the things to figure out if you want to buy them.

Clara: Totally true. I did the majority of my research when my first child was not even sitting up yet. I had the luxury of time and a paid maternity leave to fund my cloth diaper purchases. If I were just starting out with cloth diapers now, with 2 kids, I would definitely be frustrated by the lack of local, affordable options.

Kerry: As I mentioned before, my biggest issue is the initial cost of setting yourself up with the cloth diapers. I think this expenditure is detrimental and discouraging to many, especially those on a tighter budget. Each diaper can range in price from $12 to $20 each. Times that by 30 and yowza. Add liners and covers and then add the thought of special bags, detergents, etc etc and I think many would-be cloth diaper users run for the simple allure of the disposable.

I have seen used diapers being sold on Craigslist. If you don’t have a friend who can donate or sell them to you, I highly recommend this as the way to start. Also, just buy one or two of the different types out there to start. You have to figure out what works for you and your baby and the less spent and potentially wasted, the better.

I don’t feel guilty for the using the disposables with my cloth diapers. I am still sending less of them to the landfill, and one of these days, when I figure it all out, will actually spend LESS money too.

Online Resources

Where to buy

Local “in-person” Stores

  • Kids Kloset in Sapperton (420 E. Columbia Street, New Westminster) carries a selection of cloth diapers, including my faves, the Bum Genius 3.0 and the Kushies diaper liners.
  • Unlimited Discount Diapers in Point Grey (4330 W. 10th Ave) has a vast selection of fitted diapers and covers, prefolds in bleached and unbleached cotton.
  • Room 4 Two (1409 Commercial Drive) has a great supply of the Kushies liners
  • TJ’s Kids World (various locations in the Lower Mainland) has a variety of Kushies cloth diapers and covers for reasonable prices.

Online Stores:

  • New And Green (Vancouver) http://www.newandgreen.com/index.php
  • Jamtots (Victoria) http://www.jamtots.com
  • Weecare Diaper Company (Langley) http://weecarediapercompany.com

Glossary

Flat Diaper – This is the “old style” large rectangle of cloth that the last generation of cloth diaperers used. A flat diaper must be folded so that it is thicker in the middle, then into a kite or triangle shape and pinned or fastened around the baby. Add a PUL or wool cover and you are ready for action.

Prefold – Prefold diapers , pre-folded and stitched in multiple layers of cotton or hemp so they are more absorbant. This saves you one step over the flat diaper; you only need fold a prefold into a diaper shape and pin or fasten around the baby. I bought a supply of these to use with my first son because they are economical ($25 a dozen) and we used small ones when my second son was a newborn. After a certain age, trying to fold, pin and cover becomes prohibitively exhausting.

Fitted – A fitted diaper goes one step further than a prefold and is sewn in diaper “shape.” Fitted diapers often fasten around the baby’s waist with velcro like these Kushies or sometimes require fastening with diaper pins or a fastener like a snappi (see below). A fitted diaper is just cloth so you still need a waterproof cover.

Cost: you’re paying for two pieces, the diaper and the cover. Fitted diapers range in price from $10 – $20 each. I am still using some Kushies fitted diapers that I bought three years ago, a five-pack for $40. Covers are about the same price, $12 apiece, but you only need 2 – 4 of them, since you can use the same cover until it gets dirty.

Pocket diaper – A pocket diaper is two parts: the pocket, which is made of a waterproof material and which fastens using velcro or snaps, and the stuffer, which is a long pad that goes into the pocket and absorbs the pee. Pocket diapers are expensive. The ones I like are called and I paid $21 each. But if a pocket diaper is made well it can last at least two years. (I say at least because that is how long I’ve had mine.) Some pocket diapers are sized (ie: S,M,L) but others, like the Bum Genius 3.0, are adjustable so that they fit kids from 7 – 35 lbs.

Snappi Fastener Someone invented this as an alternative to diaper pins and it is pretty sweet. I stole this definition from the website because I couldn’t define it any better without saying “doohickey” a lot.
“An EASY to use fastener that offers a PRACTICAL and RELIABLE way to fasten a cloth diaper, replacing the diaper pin. It comes in a variety of colors and is made from a stretchable non-toxic material, which is T-shaped with grips on each end. These grips hook into the diaper fabric to ensure a snug-fitting diaper with enough natural movement for the baby.”

Cover – A cover goes over your favourite cloth diaper to prevent your child’s clothes from getting soaked with pee. They can be made with PUL (polyurethane laminate), wool or fleece. They fasten with snaps or Aplix/VELCRO® or if wool, just pull up like underpants. these covers and these covers were my favourites because they were breathable and not too stiff. I also loved my wool cover, which was miraculous (waterproof! Breathable!) and expensive ($30!) and got eaten by moths. If you can knit, there are patterns for wool covers out there.